There is a difference between controlling your environment and ordering your environment.
Controlling your environment is an unhealthy habit that is birthed from fear and/or anxiety. You are afraid that you will be hurt/rejected/manipulated/disappointed/failed.
Ordering your environment is a healthy habit that is birthed from principle. You understand the consequences your interactions have with your surroundings and have a vision of where that interaction should lead you.
Ordering is freedom. Control is enslaving.
The difference is the motive behind the action.
Ordering pursues excellence.
Control pursues perfection (which is impossible and unrealistic).
Ordering alters itself and accepts the outcome.
Control tries to control the outcome.
Ordering is motivated by principle.
Control is motivated by emotion.
Making a decision to shape your future is healthy.
Let us help you create that future.
